It is impossible to know what another person is thinking.
What other people think of you changes from moment to moment. Say for instance, a friend tells you that someone said sth bad abt you. Of course, you will feel hurt, and you begin wondering all kinds of things: What did i do to make this other person angry? Why is she saying these things? What can i do to get back at her? But it is impt to rmb that this person could have been in a bad mood when she said wht she did. Or she could have been in a bad mood when she said wht she did. Or she could have been trying to impress someone else. Or it is possible tht sth you did unintentionally hurt her feeling, and she is just reacting to that. We never rly know what another person thinks simply by being told sth he or she said.
You might try extra hard to get him or her to like you. But in the end, people are going to think what they think. And it is sth you cant do anythg abt.
Thank God, i got a partner who i can confide some of the problems that is troubling me. He never fails to make me laugh.
